Keep Your Head Held High & Your Middle Finger Higher.


Sometimes in life when something doesn’t go to plan it can feel like your whole world has been turned upside down. Nothing feels as though it is going right and everything is falling apart.  This could be whether your stuck in a dead end job or whether the love of your life has just left you. It can be big changes or small, either way there seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel. You feel like you are going backwards rather than forwards.


Ever heard that saying ‘Good things come to those who wait’?  

This is the perfect time to put this theory to the test. Who said you had to be the tea lady forever or the office bitch. No one wants to be stuck in a dead end job going nowhere so this is the time to act. Set yourself small goals into finding a new job, job search for an hour once a week. Baby steps will soon turn into bigger steps. Your dreams will become reality and you will slowly be able to achieve your dream job. It’s all about hard work. Putting your mind to it and giving it your all. Believing is the first step. Once you believe, the rest comes naturally.


From experience I have found out that NOTHING lasts forever. Relationships take a lot of time an effort from both partners so if one isn’t pulling their weight then it isn’t going to work. It’s about giving and taking, a balance of both. No one should be made to feel like they are worth less than the other. That isn’t how relationships work. If one person isn’t pulling their weight then the relationship will break down. Move on, hold your head high. If they didn’t appreciate you then they definitely didn’t deserve you. Find someone who thinks your perfect. Who knows your faults and is still in love with you. There’s plenty of fish in the sea, you just need to find the right one. As the saying goes, you need to kiss a few frogs to find your prince.

“An arrow can only be shot by pulling it backward. When life is dragging you back with difficulties, it means it’s going to launch you into something great. So just focus, and keep aiming”.


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